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Member since: 14 Sep, 2012
Website: http://www.nzdating.com/member...
Location: Manurewa.Auckland.New Zealand
Relationship status: Open relationship
About me:
AYUBOWAN: MAY I be perfectly honest with you right from the start? Thank you. I do NOT hold "Victorian" values or ideas. I have high libido & can be very promiscuous when I want to be. I'm not looking for relationships as I already have met my Soul-mate, 22yrs my junior; as well as a Lover, 2yrs my senior. All I want right now is N.S.A. M2M fun. I HAVE innocently & unknowingly blundered into the world of cross-dressing, & as a result, got to know myself a little better, including more self esteem. I am not scared to show my feminine side, & will most happily relinquish the lead to achieve this while making love to you. Incidentally, I'm a Versatile/Bottom & not adverse to total intimacy. I am NOT a CD, & never likely to be! If the truth was known I do enjoy having sex with a CD; not everybodies cup o' tea; the sex is that more intense, that more erotic, that more intimate, that more open, with inhibitions falling like nine (9) pins, making it that more enjoyable, unlike "just getting your rocks off" in a one time hook up or sauna. I was married for 30+ yrs & miss the intimacy when making love; something you can not get with mediocre M2M sex, other than the "great" sex with an experienced older man, or a cross-dresser. All, are self evident! ACHIEVING intimacy. True intimacy can be a challenge to achieve. Trust builds gradually between people, yet there are times when we do feel able to open up to others immediately. There is something about them. We feel they'll understand. Significantly, we also feel able to be ourselves (at last!) with this other person. Such can be the beginnings of love. "INTIMACY between Men": Should be a very private, a very erotic, a very loving pair bonding between two male individuals. After all, you're doing unspeakable, but erotic things to each other what no human being has ever done to you before sexually, & never will; unless it's with the same man in which case the bond is only going to get stronger, breaking down ALL inhibitions while the sex is just going to get better & better; maybe even spoiling you for other men; & maybe never reaching a pinnacle. Like fine wine, sex really can improve with age. A healthy attitude & body, plus experience & communication are all it takes. But you youngins would know nothing about that. Would you? "Intimacy between men", preferring to strut your stuff like a Peacock at Saunas to men who, you hope, will look at you & ending up with "just getting your rocks off" in a one time hook up with an anonymous partner & sex that leads nowhere, except to lust. Casual sex, even more or less anonymous sex, can be fun; but there is though, potentially the risk of a subsequent feeling of being cheapened, soiled or (self-)abused. It is all too easy to suffer the expense of spirit in a waste of shame anomie as the lust, desires and fantasies dissipate & the emotional baggage added to in the minutes following orgasm as we try to pull ourselves together to face the (homophobic) world once again.

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