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| Member since: 14 Sep, 2012 |
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| Website: http://www.nzdating.com/member... |
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| Location: Manurewa.Auckland.New Zealand |
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| Relationship status: Open relationship |
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About me:
AYUBOWAN:
MAY I be perfectly honest with you right from the
start? Thank you. I do NOT hold
"Victorian" values or ideas. I have high
libido & can be very promiscuous when I want
to be. I'm not looking for relationships as I
already have met my Soul-mate, 22yrs my junior; as
well as a Lover, 2yrs my senior. All I want right
now is N.S.A. M2M fun.
I HAVE innocently & unknowingly blundered into
the world of cross-dressing, & as a result,
got to know myself a little better, including more
self esteem. I am not scared to show my feminine
side, & will most happily relinquish the lead
to achieve this while making love to you.
Incidentally, I'm a Versatile/Bottom &
not adverse to total intimacy. I am NOT a CD,
& never likely to be! If the truth was known I
do enjoy having sex with a CD; not everybodies cup
o' tea; the sex is that more intense, that
more erotic, that more intimate, that more open,
with inhibitions falling like nine (9) pins,
making it that more enjoyable, unlike "just
getting your rocks off" in a one time hook up
or sauna. I was married for 30+ yrs & miss the
intimacy when making love; something you can not
get with mediocre M2M sex, other than the
"great" sex with an experienced older
man, or a cross-dresser. All, are self evident!
ACHIEVING intimacy.
True intimacy can be a challenge to achieve. Trust
builds gradually between people, yet there are
times when we do feel able to open up to others
immediately. There is something about them. We
feel they'll understand. Significantly, we
also feel able to be ourselves (at last!) with
this other person. Such can be the beginnings of
love.
"INTIMACY between Men":
Should be a very private, a very erotic, a very
loving pair bonding between two male individuals.
After all, you're doing unspeakable, but
erotic things to each other what no human being
has ever done to you before sexually, & never
will; unless it's with the same man in which
case the bond is only going to get stronger,
breaking down ALL inhibitions while the sex is
just going to get better & better; maybe even
spoiling you for other men; & maybe never
reaching a pinnacle. Like fine wine, sex really
can improve with age. A healthy attitude &
body, plus experience & communication are all
it takes. But you youngins would know nothing
about that. Would you? "Intimacy between
men", preferring to strut your stuff like a
Peacock at Saunas to men who, you hope, will look
at you & ending up with "just getting
your rocks off" in a one time hook up with an
anonymous partner & sex that leads nowhere,
except to lust. Casual sex, even more or less
anonymous sex, can be fun; but there is though,
potentially the risk of a subsequent feeling of
being cheapened, soiled or (self-)abused. It is
all too easy to suffer the expense of spirit in a
waste of shame anomie as the lust, desires and
fantasies dissipate & the emotional baggage
added to in the minutes following orgasm as we try
to pull ourselves together to face the
(homophobic) world once again.
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